True to life story
Kingsley Igbedion 08171280408
Really some people find it very hard to say I am sorry when they are at fault. I would like to narrow it down by using marriage of husband and wife as my case study; vis-a-vis my dear country, Nigeria.
In marriage, love ought to be seen to have more value than personality. On the other hand, if – personality should be allowed to exist in marriage there will be always a crash between the husband and the wife… because either of them feels so important to admit when wrong. Most times, some couple feels so reluctant to say sorry. This is common with some women they allow personality to overshadow them; finding it difficult to say sorry to their spouse when they are wrong.
To buttress on this, I wish to cap it on a recent incident that I witness the other day at a compound 30 metres from Oza House on Obi-Ikenchuku road, Agbor.
It was a serious fight between the husband, Mr. I and the wife, Mrs. V, you need to see the woman, Mrs. V, she was a tigress, half naked as she fought her husband. The husband, Mr. T, on his part was not left- he was throwing punches on the wife like Mike Tyson.
Lest I forget, the cause of the fracas was due to lack of understanding_ show or exhibition of personality by the wife, Mrs. V. Mr. T, the husband returned and asked his wife Mrs. V why she wasn’t picking his calls. For Mrs. V, to say am sorry. I never checked my phone or use some sweet words; instead her reply was out of point. Hear her, “You did not call, stop telling lies” check the missed calls in your phone” the husband, Mr. T, instead “Why should I check, when I know you are telling lies” Mrs. V remarked, by this negative comments from the wife. The husband Mr. T, fused off_ he was full of rage, that he sent a sounding slap on the wife face and hell was let loose.
The showdown attracted people around the vicinity. You see what I am saying; if Mrs. V, the wife has said I am sorry, I never knew you called or that her phone was in the room or that she was in the kitchen. By this sweet nothing words followed by I am sorry. The showdown should have been averted.
Marriage is honourable. Husband and wife should learn to use sweet words, such as I am SORRY etc.